Thursday, June 28, 2007

C..... Boo hoo...

Boo Hoo.... sob sob sob.... such a sad question...

I would say i will choose C... cause i think sooner or later, my parnter will find out the real answer.. so no point hiding from him... unless u decide to die in a remote island and nobody knows our condition.. but i believe.. i will let my family and close frens know my condition, so sooner or later, my parnter will know.. so instead of letting him living in regret forever.. i would say i will let him know, and both of us will go through this together....

YanYan

Posted at 10:57 PM

My answer is C

I'm not selfish, I'll share all my pain, joy and laughter to my partner.
And by dying earlier, my partner will be the one suffering.
Why not let her know earlier, at least we could have hug like it's the end of the world before I leave her ._.

Kent

Posted at 1:17 PM

Tuesday, June 26, 2007

question 2

it's question time again!

With such unpredictability in life, we should be mentally prepared for what may come. So it's good to start thinking..

Given after all these searching and finally found a soul mate; however, unfortunately, you contracted some illness that cannot be treated, say terminal stage of cancer etc, how would you break the news to the one you most loved?

a. Preserve the most beautiful part of your love by breaking off wi him/her with some other excuses and lead the rest of your life by yourself. Let them know only the true reason of breakup when you are dead.

b. same as above except tt you make sure they will never know the true reason to the breakup, even after your death

c. cherish the remaining time wi them by letting them know your condition. This however, may inflict hardship on them as well, especially when they see what you are going though

d. open to suggestions


heh. what would you do?

Posted at 11:13 PM

Friday, June 8, 2007

The power of 'Want'

In life, the power of want is very strong. The urge and the desire that is deep inside us, wanting that particular thing or wanting something to be done is kept inside our heart and mind. However, no one will know what we want until we voice it out. Yes it may be strong, but unless we amplify it in one way or another. Nothing will happen. No one will ever share the same thinking as another individual. When we want something, we need to show it, we need to display our desire to let someone notice of our 'want'. It is vital to show and let others know if we want it. Unless the urge of our 'want' is weak, therefore our voice will be coherent to the extent our urge; minimal.

I belive that if we want something to happen or want to achieve something. We got to prove it with our actions and letting others notice of our desire. In this strong and competitive society, I thought it'll be silly to sit on our couch watching the television program and waiting for something amazing to happen in our life. I guess we all know this fact of life, just that sometimes we let it slip out of our mind due to the comfortable life that we're used to it and hardly ever wish to step out of our comfort zone.

If ever there is something to pull us up from our couch, it'll be eight strong reasons that we should remind ourselves constantly to have the urge to want something in life or to make something happen.

Ask yourself,
Why do I want it?
Who do I want to benefit it?
Do I really want it?
Am I prepare to sacrifice in exchange for something?
Do I want to see a change in my life?

Make it happen. For a start, I want to watch movie, so when are you people free? x)

Kent

Posted at 9:15 AM

Wednesday, June 6, 2007

RE: Am I?

Urm.. hmmm.. (I can go urm and hmm for the whole hour).

Chuhui is a deep girl. Period. Oh? not enough? kk..
Here goes..

Chuhui is optimistic towards everyone's ideas, suggestions and opinions.
She's a good friend that never fails to listen to us.
Though sometimes, I felt that she's slightly pessimistic towards her own life? Not too sure, but that's the feelings at times.

You're definitely not lazy, I would say quite active in your life ba. In terms of family, friends, studies and interests. (well, everything).

Deep, sometimes I felt that you're not open up enough for us to know you better?
Open up more! I'm always around. Listening.

Kent

Posted at 2:00 PM

RE: a team.

In addition to what you've reflected in your entry.

Like what you've said, 'Being in a team'. We need to look at the bigger picture. Often it's usually accompanied by taking a big step back and really stare at the picture.

I mean I don't know if you only want us to listen but, if there's any suggestions you need..

Perhaps it'll be ideal for everyone to gather and talk it out or something. Prolly there's a related incident that happened because there's no teamwork, then you or anyone else in the team can step forward and say, 'hey, something is missing in the team here, let's find out what's missing'

I read some quote somewhere, 'Life is made up of 10% of what has happened in your life and 90% of how you're going to react to events that happened in your life'

Something happened betweem the team and the leader, so how can we react towards this 'miscommunication' to prevent snowball effect from happening?

Kent

Posted at 1:49 PM

chu hui's reply

hee.. intended that to be our little checklist, i.e. everyone do it for everyone.
>> liyan: i'm into sailing, not windsurfing. hahas.. initially i thought i joined windsurfing too.

okok, i shall start the ball rolling..

well, i think..

1. liyan is optimistic, good listener + opinion giver. knows when to offer a shoulder for others to lean upon. i think she's active in her circle of frens and is difficult to make last min dates with her. heh

2. derrick is slightly skewed towards the pessimistic side in that he offers practical opinion, most of the times scritinising. but the rest of the cws member (ok, at least me) do not take it to heart. in my opinion, he is always actively colouring his life with all that water activities.

3. kent is his so different from me and i think it's very interesting to hear him out- both his ideas and ambition scope. Optimistic he is for irregardless how his potential money making plans are put off by the rest of cws members.


disclaimer: this is, by far, solely my personal opinion. any offensive feelings results are much regretted.

chu hui

Posted at 1:32 PM

Tuesday, June 5, 2007

You Are...

hmmm... u are in between optimisstic and pessimistic... u are a good listener in my opinion... u are active (u joined windsurfing, rem)... hahaha...

Sometimes, we do listen to what others said... but its the BIG BIG ego, that refuses to admit that u are in the wrong or to follow other ppl's instruction... hahaha


YanYan

Posted at 12:20 AM

Monday, June 4, 2007

Am I ..

optimistic or pessimistic?

good listener or conversationistion?

lazy or active?

heh. many times, we cannot get a fuller picture becos we keep viewing from the same spot. maybe it's time to listen to what others have to say.

caution: what others say might not be totally true for only u understand urself best.

chu hui

Posted at 11:30 PM

Sunday, June 3, 2007

a team.

i still remember vividly how harsh i was when i was a captain of the swimming team. and i thought i had to be authoritative because that's how i keep the team going.

but i realise only after a year i was harsh because i was too harsh on myself to begin with. and it didn't keep the team going, and everyone loses faith and hope.

and now in the dragonboat team i'm in, its facing the same situation. but i am still clueless what should be done. if captain wasn't harsh on us, and force us to train hard, where would we be?

but why even when i know it, i still bear this grudge against him every time he open his mouth?

yes i do know that he wants the team to excel in the upcoming race, and that's why he has been pushing us. however not everyone is lending him the support, some even beg to differ, and think that he/she could do better then the captain.

maybe at time like this, we should just take a step back and look at the bigger picture.

its really hard to lead. and its harder to follow.

tsk.

Posted at 9:32 PM